Best buddies
It's been a long time...decades... since I've been "best buddies" with anyone. Now it's true that my wife is my best friend, but as far as male friendships, I have friends but not best buddies. There are guys I hunt with, ride motorcycles with, who help me when I need a friend. There are guys I could call at 2 am and I could count on. There are guys who I would trust with my life. Still, "best buddies" is a unique and awesome statement.
Last week my 4 year old grandson Little Zee and I went to some woods owned by a friendly farmer. We put on the 4 wheel drive on my truck, slogged through the mud, crashed through an icy stream, looked at cows, climbed hills, drove through a field. Little Zee was duly impressed with the power of 4 wheel drive. As the rednecks say, "Bury me in my truck cause I ain't never seen a hole it cain't climb out of."
We got out of the truck, found a dozen nice rocks for my landscaping, looked at wild turkey and coyote tracks and just had a great time hiking, and being in the woods.
On the way back home we stopped at Casey's and soon were munching on crackers and cheese. I was sipping a diet A&W Root Beer and Little Zee was sipping fruit juice out of a Buzz Lightyear juice container.
He looked at me and said, "We're best buddies aren't we PawPaw?" Just freeze that moment. What a wonderful treasure. He told me that he was best buddies with his daddy too. What a wonderful father who teaches his son about best buddies.
These moments are fleeting. I know I won't always be his best buddy, but for now I'm flying high.
2 Comments:
That's a moment and a comment you'll never forget. It brings tears to my eyes.
Mkhughes
Those are slowly becoming the moments I live for. When my niece says "I love you uncle Luc" my limbs go slack as I almost literally melt.
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